Get Out of Your Own Way™
"You can be right, or you can be happy. Choose."
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Jennifer Hough, Life-Makeover Coach & Author
In my practice and courses, I notice that most people wait for circumstances to change so that they can be happy. Many of us live under the illusion that we “need to” behave a certain way, accomplish things, or do certain tasks in order to be content. That somehow we will feel complete having done the tasks we feel we “should” do. But we really don’t feel complete – in fact over time, we may end up feeling drained, tired and even resentful. My favourite saying is “the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result”. If the way you are being in life is not working for you now, trying harder at the same methods is simply going to get your more of the same.
It is an illusion that you can make anyone else happy on a meaningful level, because lasting contentment is self-created. Two things happen when you set up relationships where others depend on you for happiness: one is that you sabotage their ability to create happiness powerfully for themselves, and two is you start justifying your very existence based on how others feel. Very dis-empowering stuff for both parties involved.
Some may think “this sounds very selfish”, but I would ask you to consider this, you cannot give away what you do not have. If your commitment is to make a difference in the world (as mine is), then you need to find peace for yourself first so you can give the gift of you.
In the Get Out of Your Own Way™, I teach others how to end the self-sabotage, deliberately create joy, and allow for the well-being in successful relationships and contributions that deserve to be in their life. Within the realm of what you know, you will continue to get what you’ve got. Is it time for you to transform what’s not working and to un-stick the areas that you have resigned to – and stop trying to do it all by yourself?
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